2 years, 8 months, 1 week, 5 days
Monday, December 29, 2008
We're Home
All four of us were in bed by 5:30 PM. Of course now it is 1:00 AM and Katelin and I are typing on the computer. This is going to take a few days :-)
Can't wait for you all to meet Katelin, and hear all the stories Lilli has to tell.
Thursday, December 25, 2008
Good-Bye Vietnam
So here is Katelin saying goodbye to Vietnam.
We will see you all soon. God Bless.
Old Town Hanoi
We had a great relaxing Christmas Day. After opening presents this morning, I went for a walking tour of Old Town Hanoi. A few short blocks from our hotel is Hoan Kleim Lake home to the Ngoc Son Temple.The lake is a beautiful oasis with plentiful gardens, statues and benches to relax. It seemed to be very popular with the "love birds" as I saw many young and old couples taking a relaxing
stroll or curled up on a bench. It was a very nice walk, even with the hustle and bustle of the city streets near by.This is where several of the stages were last night for the big Christmas Eve services. You wouldn't have known it because it was all cleaned up by the time I got there.
Down at the one end of the lake is an island with beautiful Asian bridge, Flood of Morning Sunlight Bridge, that heads to the Ngoc Son Temple. This small temple is basically a tourist destination now, but it is still very peaceful. Having both some Taoist and Confucian background, I did not step into the temple, as I did not want to participate in any
ceremonies. I did check out the memorial to the great turtle, that supposedly swallowed the golden sword and saved the city from the invasion of China. It was eye opening and interesting although very crowded.On my way off the island I ran into a Christian Youth Group from Hanoi who was going to be performing later in the day. Although we c
ould not understand each other very well. The name Jesus was understood very well.From of there I hit the streets, walking through the small cramped streets of old town. It is interesting to see how two blocks or so will be the "Home Depot" section with each family providing a different need, all layed out on the sidewalk. Then you run into the clothing blocks, followed by the electronics blocks, etc. What
makes it amazing is that every square inch of space is used. The sidewalks are covered in goods, and what is not covered, has become a parking lot for hundreds of motorbikes. Thus when you walk down the street, you literally are walking down the street with motorbikes and cars whizzing by you. You definitely put your faith in God here. And amazingly there are very few accidents. The people were pleasant, many trying to sell me, but overall nice.One lady even gave me some tangelos after talking to me (I politely accepted, but later disposed of them.) She has been selling produce for ten years now, helping her family of 10 (including parents and grand parents.)
A few hours later, I was on my way back to the hotel, feeling as though I had just smoked two packs of cigarettes from all of the exaust. My allergies and sinuses were flaring.
We finished our Christmas day with a buffet dinner at Jaspas, a nice trendy place here in the hotel. It was very good, but probably not worth the price (are holiday buffets ever worth the price?)
We prat that everyone is having a very Merry Christmas day. Good night from Hanoi.
Wednesday, December 24, 2008
Merry Christmas from Vietnam
Boy do the Vietnamese know how to party. Not that they are partying for all the right reasons, but they are celebrating Christmas. And every year they are hearing all the Christmas songs, including the words Jesus Christ, little baby, Savior, Holy night
From about 7PM until 1AM there was a big party going on at the lake about four blocks from the hotel, with two big stages and tens of thousands of people. Then about 11PM we heard a few fireworks and then an endless parade of honking cars and motor bikes worked its way through the streets. The difference from any other time during the day was all at once loud and constant. Who could sleep.
After the fun downstairs, we came back to our room, which the girls had decorated earlier in the day. We even had a Christmas tree. We sat down and read Twas the Night Before Christmas, The Christmas Story from the Bible, and sang Silent Night. Then we made sure the stockings were hung on the credenza with care, put a plate of oreos and a glass of water out for Santa, and it was off to bed. At least for the little ones, and beleive it or not they both were able to fall asleep.
When we woke this morning, Santa had come and left some small gifts and candy in out stockings for everyone. He had even eaten most of the cookies ;-). Lilli got two new games for her Nintendo DS, and some house socks. Katelin got some new toys. Mommy, daddy and Trina got some bath supplies and pocket calendars. It was great to see the expression on Lilli's face when she realized that Santa did find us and she got some of the things she wanted.
Of course the best Christmas present we could have asked for was
the completion of our adoption of Katelin. At 11:30AM on Christmas Eve we received
our clearance and visa from the US Government, which means we are free to come home at anytime. YEA!
Please keep us in prayer as we prepare to travel home. Especially Kristi and Trina who are fighting bugs. From all of us in Vietnam, Richard, Kristi, Lilli, Katelin and Trina, we wish you a very Merry Christmas, and we will see you all soon. God Bless
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Tuesday, December 23, 2008
If it's Tueday it Must Be Hanoi
We woke this morning to a beautiful hazy sunrise on our last day in Ho Chi Minh City Vietnam. I couldn't enjoy it long because I had to catch a taxi across town to pick up Katelin's Vietnamese passport. With that we scurried over to the hospital to show her passport and pick up her medical report. Way to go, my girl passed her first test. :-)
Thats where the next little wrinkle comes in. Our tickets are booked for 12/29 which was the max it should have taken us. We are going to contact UNITED tomorrow and see if we can bump things up a few days. Could be easier said than done because of the holidays and the winter weather back in the states. Most likely we wouldn't leave before Friday, but we will lt you know as soon as we do.Monday, December 22, 2008
Hurry Up! Wait! Hurry Up!

We got down stairs early for the drive out the Ministry of Justice in the province where we adopted Katelin from. There we saw the director of the orphanage and proceeded to sign everything in triplicate-triplicates. After all of the paperwork had been processed, we signed the big book and the
Minister of Justice had us stand and proceede to hand us the certificate of adoption. For which Katelin and her quick strong hands, quickly grabbed. Luckily it was just a bit wrinkled, but all was OK.
the Passport office and apply for Katelin's passport. It was so close. They stop for lunch at 11:30, and they sometimes will just go to lunch even if you are still waiting. Luckily we got our receipt and were out of there by 11:45. On the trip back, Katelin wanted to sit with Lilli, so Lilli fed her, and pretty soon Katelin was sound asleep in her lap.
One of the things we did when we adopted Lilli, was take a picture of all the kids sitting on a couch in the lobby. This became known as the "class picture." Well we had to keep the tradition going, so may I present the Valedictorian and tops in her class of December 2009, Lan Xuan Nguyen, now know as Katelin Lan Foster.We have now finished the Vietnames portion of our trip. S he is officially ours?As soon as we get her passport and health report tomorrow it is off to Hanoi and the US portion of our game. We;ll talk to you soon.
Sunday, December 21, 2008
Going to the Market
Otherwise, today Katelin and mommy were having a rough morning, so they stayed behind to get a few extra winks, while Lilli and I went to the Ben Thanh Market. An frantic colorful place of...you name it. Lilli and I went looking for some souvenigrs, but also take in the unique aspects of an open market. We did the sight
seeing first, passing by the plentiful vendors. Fresh fish and seafood next to fresh vegys around the corner from fresh chicken and fowl, sharing space with fresh fruit, across from the fresh beef, surrounded by the fresh flowers. Lets just say that we saw it all. Chickens being plucked, frog being skinned, beef heart, liver and intestines prepped for cooking. As a former restaurant guy, I am amazed and thrilled
with how stringent our health code procedures are in the U.S. There is still nothing like it, especially the color of the fruit and vegys and flowers.Then we headed to the cramped aisles of the wares portion of the market. Like I said..you name it. Clothes, shoes, appliances, crafts, linens, candy, and more clothes. It was amazing as more than one
vendor would try to get me to stop with "wat'chyou lookin' for Mista. I have just your size, you want shirt for baby (referring to 6 year old Lilli??). We finally found a few pieces of art, and a couple tea sets for the girls. Then we stopped at the flowers on the way out to get a picture, and several others began taking pictures of Lilli, then were surprised when she came up and gave her daddy a hug.
After an afternoon at the pool we got dressed and headed to the famous Rex Hotel for dinner on their fifth floor garden terrace. It was a deligtfull meal and quite eye catching, as the entire terrace was decked out in Christmas lights and the sounds of Christmas music echoed through the palm trees. So peaceful, so tasty, then a few feet away you looked over the railing to the street below and saw the insanity that is Saigons streets.
Hundreds of thousands of people and their motor bikes and cars crammed into a couple square blocks. This was sort of an "unofficial" Christmas Celebration, with vendors selling snacks, drinks and he all the glow in the dark junk you could want. We are told this is nothing, on Christmas Eve the place looks like Times Square. Glad we went to the Rex tonight.
From there it was back to the hotel and a bath/shower for all, so that we can get up early tomorrow morning and head to our G&R ceremony at the Ministry of Justice. Check back tomorrow for the latest.Saturday, December 20, 2008
Another Day in Saigon
It is Saturday in Ho Chi Minh City (also known as Saigon), and we found it a great day to catch up on some sleep an a bit of grocery shopping. Although there are many great restuarants here, with absolutely fabulous food, it is great having a kitchen so we can cook some of our own meals. As is the case in most foreign countries, you have to be careful of what you eat and drink. There is really only one grocery store that has large refrigeration to keep fresh foods cold. So that is where I bought some fruit (as long as you can peel it, it is pretty safe), a few vegy's and some fresh chicken.
After the grocery, we hot the pool, where Katelin and Lilli had a blast. The sun was hiding so it got a little chilly, so Lilli and I hoped in the hot tub (actually luke warm, but for Lilli it was perfect.)
Friday, December 19, 2008
Vietnam Day 4
Well we are on day 4 here in Vietnam. As I mentioned, our Giving and Receiving Ceremony at the Ministry of Justice has been delayed until Tuesday. Uggggg. That means a few more days here in Ho Chi Minh, but hopefully we can still get up to Hanoi and out by our December 29 flights. Please keep that in prayer because we do not want to have to change flight reservations.
After a few more stores we came back to the apartment and I made a dinner of rice and pesto chicken with snow peas (I know not very Vietnamese, but it was good.) Then we spent an hour on SKYPE video calls to the family. Thursday, December 18, 2008
South China Sea
Today was a kick back day, so we made the 2 1/2 hour trip to Vung Tau. A incredible stretch of land on the Sea of China.
Our day started out at a veranda setting for a light lunch. It was beautiful and relaxing at the Lan Rung Resort. The soup and eggrolls were yummy, and I can't say that in my wildest dreams that I ever saw myself sitting on the shores of the Sea of China, with my family, breezes blowing, listening to Celine Dion singing "O Holy Night." Strange but great.
From there we actually headed to the beach, changed into our suits, and hit the surf. Lilli had a great time playing in the sand and water and found some great seashells and avoided the sand crabs. Mommy, Katelin and Gandma Trina stayed back under the cabana enjoying the nice breezes.After a few hours in the sun, which is all even the best SPF can handle, we
headed up to the light house for a great view of the town below and the giant staue of Jesus on the next mountain. The view was amazing.The day ended with a delicious dinner of squid, fried oyster, barbecued crabs and and steamed prawn (as big as lobster) before the long drive back to the city.
We have run into a few delays now that we have Katelin, but our facilitator still says that we can be home on our original scheduled flights on December 29. Please keep this in prayer, as it is a little uneasy not knowing the finality of this trip. I gues it is par for the course with this adoption, huh.
Wednesday, December 17, 2008
GOTCHA!
Introducing Katelin Lan Foster. Received at the Catholic Church orphanage outside Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam, Wednesday, December 17, 2008 at 9:45 AM.She is very content. She was cared for by a wonderful foster family in an orphanage house. It is a set of houses behind the local Catholic church. The families give of their time to care for the children. She was very loved, and it added an different perspective to this adoption that we did not have with Lilli.
After a short time in the home, we walked

down the alley, through the gate, across the play area of the Catholic school, and on to the parsonage of the Priest of the church. There we were graciously and warmly greeted. It was very emotional to see the passion this man has for the children and what he and the church can and are doing to care and educate for them. Through a translator we had a very beautiful conversation. Then I had the great pleasure of praying with this very compassionate man, which needed no translation. Praise the Name of the Lord.

After the drive back to the hotel, where she fell asleep in daddy's arms, we had a chance to relax and (as we did with Lilli) took her for her first swimming lesson. She loved the water on her toes ;-) . Lilli was having so much fun in the pool splashing and playing with her little sister. She is adjusting so well to all of us. A lunch of rice cereal, and it was lights out for a quick nap.

Tomorrow it is off to China Beach for the day. Then our appointment
with the Minister of Justice on Friday. That means that our trip to Hanoi will be delayed a few days, but that is fine, because we enjoy HCMC just fine.
Keep us in your prayers that everything continues smoothly.
Tuesday, December 16, 2008
The Day Has Finally Arrived!
At the moment I'm sitting here listening to the traffic outside. I'm convinced the Vietnamese people never sleep. I'm also listening to poor Lilli. All this air pollution and such has aided in making her cough more. :( Please keep her in your prayers. She's annoyed with the cough.
As I sit here I'm realizing that by 10:30am this morning (10:30pm for those of you in PA) Katelin will finally be ours. There are so many things going on in my mind. We've waited 2 years and over 8 months for this precious little child. I can't wait.
We were told that Katelin is at an orphanage run by a church (isn't that awesome!). We were also told that the Priest of the church would like to meet us after we receive Katelin and before we head to our Giving and Receiving Ceremony. We're really looking forward to this.
We leave our hotel at 8:30am and there is a close to 2 hour drive. We're going to get to see a lot more of Vietnam.
We are also planning on heading to China Beach tomorrow.
We will post again tonight with pictures! You are all loved and we appreciate your support. Talk to you soon.
Watching the Sun Rise in the West
It is interesting flying west, because you end up catching up with sun (sort of speak.) So as we were flying over the Arctic Circle down toward Russia, the sun was setting. But as we flew farther south it was higher in the sky, so it was if we were watching the sun rise in the west.
Unfortunately, the giving and receiving ceremony had to be postponed from today until tomorrow. So alas, we must WAIT one more day to officially hold our Christmas Angel. The orphanage director must be present for the G&R and he could not be there today.
Because of the Christmas holiday our travel arrangements were obviously hurried to get us over here, which then change the original plans for the days we were to be here. Obviously we would rather not wait ANOTHER day, but, at least she is now within an hours drive. :-)
So we will put this free day to good use by relaxing (I feel a nap coming on), adjusting to the time, do a little shopping, and hitting the pool. Maybe a good Vietnamese dinner tonight (yummy).
Thanks for all your prayers, and we will update some more tomorrow.
Friday, December 12, 2008
Patience, Pressure & Poopies
As most of you know, the word has finally come, and my family is off to Vietnam to adopt a precious little girl. It has been an incredible journey and it has taught me three things, Patience, Pressure and Poopies.
You know the old saying that you should never pray for patience, because then God will truly test you. Well, neither Kristi or I has prayed for patience the last two and one half years, but God tested us big time, with delays and difficulties even making an adoption happen.
So we waited 2 ½ years to adopt, now you need to leave this Sunday. That is what we heard on Tuesday of this week. 2 ½ years waiting five days to get everything together and get yourself over there for two weeks. Talk about your PRESSURE! The last few days have been a whirlwind. Have you ever tried to cram 20 days work into five days? Well, I guess we’re passing. We’re still standing, and we’re still sane (I think), so on to Vietnam we go.
So God taught me patience and pressure survival. Which brings me to poopies. Lilli can’t wait to be a big sister. She has been talking about it non stop. Telling us what she is going to do to teach her little sister, and play with her little sister. She will even help mommy and daddy change the diapers, except the poopy ones. Those are for daddy. She has even given me a nickname SUPER POOPER MAN. I should be so proud.
I have to wonder, I know you tested my patience for a reason. One of my children will reveal that in the years to come. I know you tested my tolerance for pressure for a reason. I will be challenged many more times in the future. But God, what’s up with this last test? How is this test going to be revealed????
Anyway, thank you all for your prayers. Please continue to pray for traveling mercies, and health for all of us. And I want to thank all of you for your faithfulness in 2008. You have all been tested, and risen to the challenge many times, and for that I am grateful.
I pray that you all have a very Merry Christmas, a very Happy New Year, and we will see you in 2009.(you can check out the process, pictures and updates of our adoption at http://katelinskrossing.blogspot.com/ )
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
What Do You Mean We Leave On Sunday!
On the one side, this is so very exciting for us. We will receive Katelin the day after her 6 month birthday! Lil is very excited as well and would buy all the "I'm the Big Sister" items out there if we let her. If someone will let her talk to them it's about fashion and her sister.
On the other side, how in the world do you put 2 weeks of things to do (like the normal stuff of laundry, dishes, vacuuming, dusting, then there's the packing (and that's huge), then there is taking boxes to the storage, bringing the dresser back from the storage, taking the desk, computer and filing cabinet downstairs, cleaning the nursery, and the list goes on and on) into basically 3 days. Yes there was today BUT, we had a trip to take today to Washington, D.C. to get our visa's. And, with traffic the way it is on the beltway and the traffic coming on with accidents, etc. and so forth, it was an entire day gone.
So, as you can see, the stress is weighing a bit on all of us. HOWEVER, the gift (prize?) at the end of the craziness is our beautiful little Christmas angel, Katelin!
So, as long as no other complications arise, we will be on a plane for Vietnam on Sunday morning. We will keep you posted on this blog while we're on our trip and will also post some pictures. Please note that there will be some things that will not be shared due to rules and regulations of our agency but we promise you there will be plenty to keep you wanting more!
Take care all and we'll be talking to you again soon!
Friday, December 5, 2008
Over the Ocean and Thru the Clouds to Vietnam We Go!
We will be coming to this blog throughout our trip and will also post some pictures so keep checking in for the latest news. We can't promise we'll have time to blog between now and when we leave but we'll try. Until then, we wish you all a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year! Ours will most certainly be wonderful.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008
I-600 Preliminary Approval Received
PRAISE THE LORD! At 11:14 PM, Monday, December 1, 2008 we received preliminary I-600 approval from USCIS. I just happened to be checking my email when the message popped up. I opened it and saw the words Congratulations. I immediately flew upstairs to wake Kristi up and share the fabulous news.
SO what dos this mean? It means that we can travel over to Vietnam and bring her home. Now we just have to get the particulars on travel and a giving and receiving ceremony. Since we got this news at 11:14 at night, it means that the agency hasn't even received it. They will receive it later today. At which time we will begin getting the particulars on when we will go. But, believe it or not, we may have just received an incredible Christmas present.
We'll update as soon as we hear anything more.
